{"id":9752,"date":"2017-11-09T16:24:00","date_gmt":"2017-11-09T22:24:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/thelink.harding.edu\/the-bison\/?p=9752"},"modified":"2017-11-09T16:37:19","modified_gmt":"2017-11-09T22:37:19","slug":"defining-modest-and-appropriate-dress","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thelink.harding.edu\/the-bison\/2017\/11\/09\/defining-modest-and-appropriate-dress\/","title":{"rendered":"Defining \u2018Modest and Appropriate Dress\u2019"},"content":{"rendered":"<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">At Harding, the virtue of <\/span><span class=\"s2\">modest and appropriate dress is enforced with the student handbook. However, it hasn\u2019t always been this way.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s2\">Although Harding College was founded in 1924, student dress was not mentioned in the handbook until 1966. Since then, the student dress code has only expanded with the trends of the decades.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s2\">Former professor Dr. Beth Wilson, who first came to Harding to teach in the early 70s, spoke about the university\u2019s strict dress code that was in place when she began teaching. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s2\">According to Wilson, there were some faculty members who would measure the length of female students\u2019 skirts to promote modesty.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s3\">In the late 90s, Harding incorporated a section of the student handbook titled \u201cModest and Appropriate Dress.\u201d This section included dress codes for both men and women, but for nearly a decade, the section\u2019s accompanying picture was one of only female students. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s2\">The 2017-2018 Student Handbook\u2019s chapter, \u201cModest and Appropriate Dress\u201d features the Bible verses 1 Peter 3:3-4, a passage written to female Christian exiles, specifically married women.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s2\">According to page 20 of the handbook, \u201cAll members of the Harding community are expected to maintain standards of modesty and decency in dress appropriate to the Christian lifestyle and consistent with professional employment expectations.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Dean of Students Zach Neal said the dress code is applicable for all students to maintain the character of Harding.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">\u201cA potential misunderstanding is that the university is attempting to define modesty itself when we are simply providing a consistent, clear standard of what is expected for our campus,\u201d Neal said. \u201cWe evaluate the handbook, including dress code, every year and listen to all feedback throughout the year. We realize that our students come from many different backgrounds.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">According to alumna Madeline Jones, who graduated in May, modesty in Christian circles and at Harding tend to focus heavily on outward appearance rather than inner traits. She said that modesty, though it is supposed to prevent the objectification of women, ironically leads to just that, but within the church. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Jones, who did not grow up in a religious household, said arriving at a university with a strict dress code was shocking.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">As a freshman, Jones said she was the \u201cperfect Harding student,\u201d too afraid to challenge the pervasive view of modesty. She said modest clothing can have a reputation of being \u201cfrumpy, white-washed and not defining.\u201d Her style and her sense of modesty now is less about how much skin she is showing and more about her own self-worth, confidence and discretion. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">\u201cI think modesty is so cultural, and I think it is situational,\u201d Jones said. \u201cI was taught modesty to think outside of myself and to never offend who you\u2019re going to be with. Modesty for me is respect for myself and for other people, and I think that\u2019s a line that gets crossed a lot.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Jones said she believed it was common for faculty and staff to ask female students to change clothes if they were seen violating dress code. She found it frustrating to be asked to change out of clothes that her parents would not see as promiscuous.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">\u201cI feel like all we do is shame when it comes to modesty instead of cultivating uniqueness and personalized ways to view modesty,\u201d Jones said. \u201cIt\u2019s just like putting me in a box. That seems very counterproductive because we all deal with shame \u2014 especially women.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Director of Academic Resources Stephanie O\u2019Brian discussed one memory from her time as a Harding student in which her professor halted the lecture and publicly asked her to leave class and change clothes. O\u2019Brian said she was wearing capri-length pants that were a few inches below the knee but the professor referred to them as \u201cshorts,\u201d which are by dress code standards not allowed in class at all. <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">O\u2019Brian described feeling embarrassed and ashamed leaving mid-class to change her clothes.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">According to Neal, the goal of the dress code in the Student Handbook is to make sure the expectations are clear for both men and women.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">\u201cIt is never our intent to embarrass or call attention to someone in violation of the dress code so we always attempt to find the best approach to the conversation whether that be from faculty, staff or a Student Life dean in a classroom, residence hall or office,\u201d Neal said. \u201cIdeally, adherence to the expectations comes through personal awareness and commitment to honor the stated guidelines.\u201d <\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">According to Jones, however, this conversation is not always an easy one.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">\u201cWhen modesty is done the wrong way,\u201d Jones said, \u201cit just cultivates shame.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\"><i>This is the second installment of \u201cThe M-Word\u201d series. The final installment will appear in the next edition of<span class=\"Apple-converted-space\">\u00a0 <\/span>The Bison, on stands Dec. 8.<\/i><\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>At Harding, the virtue of modest and appropriate dress is enforced with the student handbook. However, it hasn\u2019t always been this way. 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