{"id":5774,"date":"2015-10-22T22:17:55","date_gmt":"2017-02-22T15:22:01","guid":{"rendered":""},"modified":"-0001-11-30T00:00:00","modified_gmt":"-0001-11-30T06:00:00","slug":"how-to-properly-date-your-internship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thelink.harding.edu\/the-bison\/2015\/10\/22\/how-to-properly-date-your-internship\/","title":{"rendered":"How to properly date your internship"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Nothing says &#8220;Homecoming&#8221; like unsolicited advice from your esteemed alumni. Fortunately for you, I&#8217;ve only been out of school for a year, so my advice is limited. But if I were to impart one nugget of wisdom, it would be this: do an internship, or better yet, do several internships.<\/p>\n<p>I did three. I&#8217;m not saying everyone has to do three, but I am well on my way to fame and fortune, so it&#8217;s highly recommended. Not really, but my resume looks pretty decent for a 22-year-old who otherwise would have been including skills like &#8220;pancake connoisseur.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>For me, internships have been like dating, but for my career. People invest a lot in dating, often with hopes of finding that person who brings out the best in them and is into all the same TV shows.<\/p>\n<p>If you wouldn&#8217;t settle when choosing a significant other, why would you settle when choosing your career?<\/p>\n<p>Instead of taking up a routine job this summer, start reaching out to organizations now to get to know your future career. Here are a few tips to help in your search for true (career) love:<\/p>\n<p>No. 1: Don&#8217;t expect to meet in all the typical places.<\/p>\n<p>People often connect through mutual friends, school or online. This is also often true for finding employment, but don&#8217;t be discouraged if you can&#8217;t find it in all the usual places. Just because a job isn&#8217;t posted doesn&#8217;t mean it doesn&#8217;t exist \u2014 which leads me to:<\/p>\n<p>No. 2: Put yourself out there.<\/p>\n<p>Be a go-getter. While it would be great to live in a world where people can read minds and pick up hints, that&#8217;s not always realistic. Sometimes you have to say, &#8220;Hello. I am kind of a catch.&#8221; Reach out to interesting organizations, let them know you have skills and see what happens.<\/p>\n<p>No. 3: Don&#8217;t act too cool.<\/p>\n<p>Even if you are a catch, there&#8217;s a line between confidence and arrogance. Keep your resume refined and accurate. Be yourself, but definitely be the humble, kind, well-dressed, punctual version as much as possible.<\/p>\n<p>No. 4: Care about what they&#8217;re interested in.<\/p>\n<p>No employer wants to hire you because of how it might benefit you. They may care about your success, but that won&#8217;t be the reason they hire you. Be clear on how you can help them achieve their goals before pursuing your own.<\/p>\n<p>No. 5: Realize what you&#8217;re looking for \u2014 or not.<\/p>\n<p>Some people end up with the first person they go out with, which is great and fortunate. However, sometimes you date and realize it isn&#8217;t a good match. The same goes for your career. I quickly learned in my internships what I was interested in, and what kind of work environments I preferred.<\/p>\n<p>One of my internships paid well, but it wasn&#8217;t an enjoyable experience. Another internship paid little, but I loved the work and the people.<\/p>\n<\/p>\n<p>A final piece of advice: as true with your career as it is for your personal life \u2014 never marry for money.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nothing says &#8220;Homecoming&#8221; like unsolicited advice from your esteemed alumni. Fortunately for you, I&#8217;ve only been out of school for a year, so my advice is limited. But if I&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":125,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[25],"tags":[268],"class_list":["post-5774","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-opinions","tag-hurricane-florence"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/thelink.harding.edu\/the-bison\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5774","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/thelink.harding.edu\/the-bison\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/thelink.harding.edu\/the-bison\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thelink.harding.edu\/the-bison\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/125"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thelink.harding.edu\/the-bison\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5774"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/thelink.harding.edu\/the-bison\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5774\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/thelink.harding.edu\/the-bison\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5774"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thelink.harding.edu\/the-bison\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5774"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thelink.harding.edu\/the-bison\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5774"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}