{"id":5072,"date":"2014-10-23T22:22:51","date_gmt":"2017-02-22T15:21:59","guid":{"rendered":""},"modified":"-0001-11-30T00:00:00","modified_gmt":"-0001-11-30T06:00:00","slug":"pace-your-peter-pan-complex","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thelink.harding.edu\/the-bison\/2014\/10\/23\/pace-your-peter-pan-complex\/","title":{"rendered":"Pace your Peter Pan complex"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>College: the time of life to expand your horizons, prepare for your future, to become the man or woman of tomorrow \u2014 or is it?<\/p>\n<p>If that is the case, why do so many seem to revert to doing things that they haven&#8217;t done in years?<\/p>\n<p>Making a run to Wal-Mart to buy a pack of Yu-Gi-Oh cards, whipping out plastic lightsabers and dueling outside of Grad Hall, downloading and playing an older version of Pok\u00e9mon, or playing &#8220;dress-up&#8221; for functions, plays, or Spring-Sing; basically participating in &#8220;kid&#8221; activities.<\/p>\n<p>I may have been caught a few times watching Cartoon Network or Disney Channel on the first floor of Allen Hall . . . and maybe three entire seasons of Ben 10 on Netflix. So the question is, why do we do this?<\/p>\n<p>Some may say it&#8217;s because we&#8217;ve never grown up, but what if it&#8217;s the opposite? What if partaking in these rituals is because we are growing up?<\/p>\n<p>Think about it. College is a brand new experience which can make it a little scary or intimidating. For many, it&#8217;s a new place, a new atmosphere, new teachers, new friends and maybe even a new country. A whole lot of &#8220;new.&#8221; So maybe having something &#8220;old&#8221; and familiar helps us to cope with this new reality.<\/p>\n<p>What if because we know that our lives are changing, and once we leave campus, our lives are never going to be the same? What if we enjoy &#8220;blasts from the pasts&#8221; to remind us who we were, what we enjoyed, what made us smile, laugh, cry and molded us into who we are today, all before we become who we are tomorrow?<\/p>\n<p>There&#8217;s nothing wrong with cartoons or pretending to be princesses or superheroes, as long as we don&#8217;t forget that we are maturing. Jesus did say to become like a child to enter the Kingdom, but we were also commanded to &#8220;put away childish things&#8221; in 1 Corinthians 13:11. It&#8217;s a balance.<\/p>\n<p>Let us remember this: as we become young professionals let&#8217;s not forget what it&#8217;s like to be a kid, to enjoy life and have fun.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>College: the time of life to expand your horizons, prepare for your future, to become the man or woman of tomorrow \u2014 or is it? If that is the case,&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":14569,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[25],"tags":[268],"class_list":["post-5072","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-opinions","tag-hurricane-florence"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/thelink.harding.edu\/the-bison\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5072","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/thelink.harding.edu\/the-bison\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/thelink.harding.edu\/the-bison\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thelink.harding.edu\/the-bison\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/14569"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thelink.harding.edu\/the-bison\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5072"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/thelink.harding.edu\/the-bison\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5072\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/thelink.harding.edu\/the-bison\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5072"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thelink.harding.edu\/the-bison\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5072"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thelink.harding.edu\/the-bison\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5072"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}