{"id":4463,"date":"2010-04-16T05:00:00","date_gmt":"2017-02-22T15:21:57","guid":{"rendered":""},"modified":"-0001-11-30T00:00:00","modified_gmt":"-0001-11-30T06:00:00","slug":"freshman-lessons","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/thelink.harding.edu\/the-bison\/2010\/04\/16\/freshman-lessons\/","title":{"rendered":"Freshman Lessons"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Written by Jenna Sampson<\/p>\n<p>Eat well, sleep enough, stay organized, wear shower shoes \u2014 these are some of the helpful hints people gave me before I left for my freshman year at college. As much advice as I was given, my first year in college has been one crazy ride. As the year winds down, I started to think about what I&#8217;ve learned from the past 287 days. These are a small number of the lessons I&#8217;ve learned as a freshman, but they&#8217;ll be ones I&#8217;ll never forget.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Wal-Mart can be a source of entertainment.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>While I was living at home, I never said to my friends, &#8220;Hey, I&#8217;m bored. Wanna go to Wal-Mart?&#8221; Yet since my start as a student here, I&#8217;ve said that phrase at least once a week.<\/p>\n<p>A few of my close friends and I actually made a bet as to how many times we would go to Wal-Mart within the first 48 hours of the spring semester. The total number of trips? Four (I wouldn&#8217;t dare go that many times during the first 48 hours of pledge week, though!).<\/p>\n<p>I always return with the weirdest things I really don&#8217;t need. At one point my cart contained two avocados, a ball of yarn with crocheting needles and noise putty. Sometimes we don&#8217;t even come out with anything; we just go and watch people. Sometimes I think that Searcy should have its own category on &#8220;People of Wal-Mart.&#8221; I think I saw Rob Zombie once.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Talk to your professors.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Back in high school, most of my teachers weren&#8217;t really concerned with much more than my test grades or my absence count. There were a few here and there that actually talked with me on a personal level, but here almost everyone on faculty is willing to talk to you about more than the lesson that day. If you&#8217;re having an issue that&#8217;s affecting your work, go to them. The least they are going to do is offer you some good advice. I have never had a teacher pray with me until I got to HU, and it has been one of the most touching things I have experienced. Don&#8217;t assume that just because they are your teachers they can&#8217;t be your friends.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Meet people!<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I haven&#8217;t always been a social person, but at the start of my junior year I decided to branch out and talk to more people. I was pretty well-known and had a good amount of friends. When I arrived on campus, I only knew about 10 people. It was a challenge for me to go from always having someone to hang out with to only knowing a handful of people, but that didn&#8217;t last long. I pledged OEGE, joined a few on-campus activities, found a Bible study and just talked to people when I got the chance. Now some of my close friends actually tease me because it takes me at least 15 minutes to sit down in the caf because I&#8217;m talking to people.<\/p>\n<p><strong>There is always something to do.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>When you have time to put your book down or shut your laptop off, go do something! I&#8217;ve heard people talk about how &#8220;There&#8217;s nothing to do in this town&#8221; {and I admit, I&#8217;ve said that), but you make your best memories when you make your own fun.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve played ultimate spoons on the entire first floor of the science building. I&#8217;ve stood outside of The Underground in freezing weather to play human knot with 15 people. I&#8217;ve rented a camera and done a photo-shoot in a cemetery. I had a water gun fight on the front lawn. I frequently visit Waffle House. I&#8217;ve had a kite battle between Hello Kitty and Optimus Prime. I&#8217;ve made mad dashes to Sonic during happy hour. I&#8217;ve even had a light saber duel in the toy aisles of Wal-Mart. Don&#8217;t just sit in your room all day, get out and make some new friends and great memories.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Make time to call home.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>I was one of those kids that couldn&#8217;t wait to leave home. I remember literally counting down the days until I could get out of that town, but about a month in to school, I got a little homesick. I was on Facebook late one night (as most college kids are), saw a picture of my dad and just started tearing up. My younger sister and I didn&#8217;t really get close until I was about 16, but I didn&#8217;t realize how much she meant to me until I only got to see her once every three months. It makes the time we get to spend together that much more special, but I still make it a priority to call at least twice a week. Paying the long distance fee is worth it.<\/p>\n<p>These are just a few things I&#8217;ve learned in the past year. Between all the laughing and crying and crying from laughing, I&#8217;ve had some of the best experiences.<\/p>\n<p>I know I have lots left to learn and three more years to go (at least), but I can tell that God is changing me for the better. Life has thrown quite a few curveballs at me since I left home, but with the grace of God and the awesome support system I have, I&#8217;ve managed to make it through my freshman year in college.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Written by Jenna Sampson Eat well, sleep enough, stay organized, wear shower shoes \u2014 these are some of the helpful hints people gave me before I left for my freshman&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":376,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[25],"tags":[268],"class_list":["post-4463","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-opinions","tag-hurricane-florence"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/thelink.harding.edu\/the-bison\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4463","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/thelink.harding.edu\/the-bison\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/thelink.harding.edu\/the-bison\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thelink.harding.edu\/the-bison\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/376"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thelink.harding.edu\/the-bison\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4463"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/thelink.harding.edu\/the-bison\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4463\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/thelink.harding.edu\/the-bison\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4463"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thelink.harding.edu\/the-bison\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4463"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/thelink.harding.edu\/the-bison\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4463"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}